Tuesday, 15 August 2017

Anxiety Test

10 MINUTES


Everybody worries or gets the odd case of butterflies in the stomach.

But are you missing out on opportunities and happiness because

of fears and worries? Is anxiety interfering with your life? While

moderate anxiety can be limiting, severe anxiety can be

crippling. Anxiety currently afflicts more than 20 million Americans,

making it the most common mental illness in the US. Find out if you're

too anxious with this anxiety test. It will determine whether you

should consider seeking help, and to what degree. For each

statement in the questionnaire, please indicate how often you feel that

way.

After finishing this test you will receive a FREE snapshot report with

a summary evaluation and graph. You will then have the option to

purchase the full results for $6.95

This test is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or for the treatment of any health condition. If you would like to seek the advice of a licensed mental health professional you can search Psychology Today's directory here.



Monday, 14 August 2017

Can You Change Your Brain by Thinking Differently?



Current neuro-scientific theory tells us that the brain is organized to reflect everything we know in our environment. The different relationships with people we have met, the variety of things we own and are familiar with, the cumulative places we have visited and have lived in, and the myriad of experiences we have embraced throughout our years are all configured in the soft plastic tissues of the brain. Even the vast array of actions and behaviors that we've repeatedly performed throughout our lifetime is also tattooed in the intricate folds of our gray matter. For the most part, our brain is equal to our environment.


In a normal day, as we respond to familiar people, as we encounter common things in known places at predictable times, and as we experience recurring conditions in our personal world, we will more than likely think and behave in automatic memorized ways. To change, then, is to think and act greater than our present circumstances. It is to think greater than our environment.


We have been told that our brains are essentially hardwired with unchangeable circuitrythat we possess or, better put, are possessed by a kind of neurorigidity that is reflected in the type of inflexible and habitual behavior we often see exhibited. The truth is that we are marvels of flexibility, adaptability, and a neuroplasticity that allows us to reformulate and re-pattern our neural connections to produce the kind of behaviors that we want. We have far more power to alter our own brains, our behaviors, our personalities, and ultimately our reality than previously thought possible. Consider those individuals in history who have risen above their present circumstances, stood up to the onslaught of reality as it presented itself to them, and made significant changes.


For example, the Civil Rights Movement would not have had its far-reaching effects if someone like Martin Luther King, Jr., had not, despite all the evidence around him (Jim Crow laws, separate but equal accommodations, snarling attack dogs, and powerful fire hoses), believed in the possibility of another reality. Though Dr. King phrased it in his famous speech as a "dream," what he was really promoting and living was a better world where everyone was equal. How was he able to do that? Simply put, he saw, felt, heard, lived and breathed a different reality in his mind than most other people at that time. It was the power of his vision that convinced millions of the justness of his cause. The world has changed because of his ability to think and act greater than conventional beliefs.


Not only did King consistently keep his dream alive in his mind, he lived his life as if his dream was already unfolding. The idea was so alive in his mind that there was a good possibility that his brain "looked as if the experience had already happened."


Neuroscience has proven that we can change our brains just by thinking differently. Through the concept of mental rehearsal (to repeatedly imagine performing an action), the circuits in our brains can reorganize themselves to reflect our very intentions. In one study, people who mentally rehearsed one-handed finger exercises two hours a day for five days demonstrated the same brain changes as people who physically performed the same movements.1 To put this into perspective, when we are truly focused and single minded, the brain does not distinguish between the internal world of the mind and the external environment.


This type of internal processing allows us to become so involved in our dreams and internal representations that the brain will modify its wiring without having had experienced the actual event. When we change our minds independent of environmental cues and then steadfastly insist on an ideal with sustained concentration, the brain will be ahead of the actual external experience. In other words, the brain will function as if the experience has already happened. As we embrace the very circumstances that challenge our mind, we will have put the appropriate circuits in place to allow us to behave consistently with our intentions. Simply said, the hardware will have been installed so that we can handle the challenge. When we change our mind, our brain changes, and when we change our brain, our mind changes.


What made Dr. King-or any great leader, for that matter-unique was that his mind and body were united to the same cause. In other words, he did not think one thing and then behave contrary to his intentions. His thoughts and actions were completely aligned to the same outcome. This is not a bad working definition for true leadership. When we can focus our mind on a desired goal and then discipline the body to consistently act in alignment with that end, we are demonstrating greatness. We are literally living in the future, and our body will begin to change in order to prepare us for the new experience. In one study, men who mentally rehearsed doing bicep curls with dumbbells for a short period of time every day showed (on the average) a 13 percent increase in muscle size without ever touching the weights. Their bodies changed to match their intentions.


So when the time comes to demonstrate a vision contrary to the environmental conditions at hand, it is quite possible for us to be already prepared to think and act, with a conviction that is steadfast and unwavering. In fact, the more we think about or formulate an image of our behavior in a future event, the easier it will be for us to execute a new way of being because the mind and body are unified to that end.


So what is it then that talks us out of true change? The answer is: our feelings and our emotions. Feelings and emotions are the end-products of an experience. When we are in the midst of any experience, all of our five senses are gathering sensory data and a rush of information is sent back to the brain through those five different pathways. As this occurs, gangs of neurons will string into place and organize themselves to reflect that event. The moment that these jungles of nerve cells become patterned into networks, they will fire into place and release chemicals. Those chemicals that are released are called emotions.


Emotions and feelings, then, are neuro-chemical memories of past events. We can remember experiences better when we can recall how they felt. For example, do you remember where you were on 9/11? You probably can clearly recall where you were that day, at that exact time, because you can remember the novel feeling that woke you up enough to pay full attention. More than likely, it was a different feeling than you'd had in a long time.


Back to the concept of change. If emotions brand experiences into long-term memory, then when we are faced with current obstacles in our life that require thinking and acting in new ways, and we use familiar feelings as a barometer for change, we will most certainly talk ourselves out of our ideal. Think about this. Our feelings reflect the past. But to change is to abandon past ways of thinking, acting and feeling so that we can move into the future with a new outcome. To change is to think (and act) greater than how we feel. Emotions like fear, worry, frustration, greed, and self-importance are familiar feelings that, even in the midst of transformation, if we decide to succumb to, will surely point us in the wrong direction.


Can we then begin to contemplate change for ourselves? To learn to think independently of the barrage of environmental stimuli is a skill that, when properly executed, will change the brain, the mind, and the body to prepare us for the future. The art of self-refection may seem as if it is dying in a technological culture that saturates us with so much information that we become addicted to the external world to stimulate our own thinking. How free are we? Most are lost without the thrill of entertainment, text messaging, phone calls, and the Internet. To make the time to meditate, to plan our future, to mentally rehearse the behaviors we want to change and to think about new ways of being will surely advance us beyond our predictable genetic destiny.

JOE DISPENZA, D.C., has a bachelor' s of science degree with an emphasis in neuroscience from Evergreen State College in Olympia, Washington, and a doctor of chiropractic degree from Life University in Atlanta, Georgia. He is one of the scientists featured in the film What the BLEEP Do We Know! He has lectured in over 17 countries about the role and function of the human brain. His new book Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Mind, explores the biology of change, and in his research into spontaneous remissions, Dispenza has found similarities in people who have experienced so-called miraculous healings, showing that they have actually changed their mind, which then changed their health.
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What Having Anxiety Feels Like



I didn't know what anxiety was - I called it stress. It doesn't matter what you call it, the effects are the same. How do you do it?

Saturday, 12 August 2017

What Emotions Are (and Aren't)

OUR senses appear to show us the world the way it truly is, but they are easily deceived. For example, if you listen to a recorded symphony through stereo speakers that are placed exactly right, the orchestra will sound like it’s inside your head. Obviously that isn’t the case.





But suppose you completely trusted your senses. You might find yourself asking well-meaning but preposterous scientific questions like “Where in the brain is the woodwinds section located?” A more reasonable approach is not to ask a where question but a how question: How does the brain construct this experience of hearing the orchestra in your head?

I have just set the stage to dispel a major misconception about emotions. Most people, including many scientists, believe that emotions are distinct, locatable entities inside us — but they’re not. Searching for emotions in this form is as misguided as looking for cerebral clarinets and oboes.

Of course, we experience anger, happiness, surprise and other emotions as clear and identifiable states of being. This seems to imply that each emotion has an underlying property or “essence” in the brain or body. Perhaps an annoying co-worker triggers your “anger neurons,” so your blood pressurerises; you scowl, yell and feel the heat of fury. Or the loss of a loved one triggers your “sadness neurons,” so your stomach aches; you pout, feel despair and cry. Or an alarming news story triggers your “fear neurons,” so your heart races; you freeze and feel a flash of dread.

Such characteristics are thought to be the unique biological “fingerprints” of each emotion. Scientists and technology companies spend enormous amounts of time and money trying to locate these fingerprints. They hope someday to identify your emotions from your facial muscle movements, your body changes and your brain’s electrical signals.

Some scientific studies seem to support that such fingerprints exist. But many of those studies disagree on what the fingerprints are, and a multitude of other studies indicate there are no such fingerprints.

Let’s start with neuroscience. The Interdisciplinary Affective Science Laboratory (which I direct) collectively analyzed brain-imaging studies published from 1990 to 2011 that examined fear, sadness, anger, disgust and happiness. We divided the human brain virtually into tiny cubes, like 3-D pixels, and computed the probability that studies of each emotion found an increase in activation in each cube.

Overall, we found that no brain region was dedicated to any single emotion. We also found that every alleged “emotion” region of the brain increased its activity during non emotional thoughts and perceptions as well.

The most well-known “emotion” region of the brain is the amygdala, a group of nuclei found deep within the temporal lobes. Since 2009, at least 30 articles in the popular press have claimed that fear is caused by neurons firing in the amygdala. Yet only a quarter of the experiments that we analyzed showed an increase in activity in the amygdala during the experience of fear. Indeed, it has long been known that certain “fear” behaviors, such as fleeing, don’t require the amygdala.

Other evidence against the amygdala-fear relationship comes from a pair of identical twins, known in the scientific literature as “BG” and “AM,” who both have a genetic disease that obliterates the amygdala. BG has difficulty feeling fear in all but the most extreme situations, but AM leads a normal emotional life.

If emotions are not distinct neural entities, perhaps they have a distinct bodily pattern — heart rate, respiration, perspiration, temperature and so on?

Again, the answer is no. My lab analyzed over 200 published studies, covering nearly 22,000 test subjects, and found no consistent and specific fingerprints in the body for any emotion. Instead, the body acts in diverse ways that are tied to the situation. Even a rat facing a threat (say, the odor of a cat) will flee, freeze or fight depending on its surrounding context.

The same goes for the human face. Many scientists assume that the face clearly and reliably broadcasts emotion (scowling in anger, pouting in sadness, widening the eyes in fear, wrinkling the nose in disgust). But a growing body of evidence suggests that this is not the case. When we place electrodes on a human face and actually measure muscle movements during anger, for example, we find that people make a wide variety of movements, not just the stereotypical scowl.

CHARLES DARWIN famously vanquished the notion of essences in biology. He observed that a species is not a single type of being with a fixed set of attributes, but rather a population of richly varied individuals, each of which is better or worse suited to its environment.

Analogously, emotion words like “anger,” “happiness” and “fear” each name a population of diverse biological states that vary depending on the context. When you’re angry with your co-worker, sometimes your heart rate will increase, other times it will decrease and still other times it will stay the same. You might scowl, or you might smile as you plot your revenge. You might shout or be silent. Variation is the norm.

This insight is not just academic. When medical researchers ask, “What is the link between anger and cancer?” as if there is a single thing called “anger” in the body, they are in the grip of this error. When airport securityofficers are trained on the assumption that facial and body movements are reliable indicators of innermost feelings, taxpayers’ money is wasted.

The ease with which we experience emotions, and the effortlessness with which we see emotions in others, doesn’t mean that each emotion has a distinct pattern in the face, body or brain. Instead of asking where emotions are or what bodily patterns define them, we would do better to abandon such essentialism and ask the more revealing question, “How does the brain construct these incredible experiences?”


Lisa Feldman Barrett is a professor of psychology at Northeastern University and the author of the forthcoming book “How Emotions Are Made: The New Science of the Mind and Brain.”

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Monday, 7 August 2017

Grit: A Complete Guide on Being Mentally Tough


What is Grit?

Let's define grit. Grit is the perseverance and passion to achieve long–term goals. Sometimes you will hear grit referred to as mental toughness. Angela Duckworth, a researcher at the University of Pennsylvania, suggests that grit is a strong predictor of success and ability to reach one's goals. Duckworth's research on grit has shown that…
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     > West Point cadets who scored highest on the Grit Test were 60% more likely to succeed than their peers.  
     > Ivy League undergraduate students who had more grit also had higher GPAs than their peers — even though they had lower SAT scores and weren’t as “smart.” 
·  > When comparing two people who are the same age but have different levels of education, grit   (and not intelligence) more accurately predicts which one will be better educated.

·    > Competitors in the National Spelling Bee outperform their peers not because of IQ, but because of their grit and commitment to more consistent practice.

A Video Explanation of Grit

This short TED talk by psychology professor Angela Duckworth explains the concept of grit and how it helps foster mental toughness in our everyday lives

How to Be Mentally Strong

Step 1: Define what grit or mental toughness means for you.
For you, it might be…

> Going one month without missing a workout
> Delivering your work ahead of schedule for two days in a row
> Calling one friend to catch up every Saturday this month

Whatever it is, be clear about what you’re going after.

Step 2: Build grit with small physical wins.
So often we think that grit is about how we respond to extreme situations, but what about everyday circumstances?

Mental toughness is like a muscle. It needs to be worked to grow and develop.

Choose to do the tenth rep when it would be easier to just do nine. 
Choose to create when it would be easier to consume. Choose to ask the extra question when it would be easier to accept. Prove to yourself — 
in a thousand tiny ways — that you have enough guts to get in
the ring and do battle with life.


Step 3: Build strong habits and stop depending on motivation.
Grit isn’t about getting an incredible dose of inspiration or courage. It’s about building thedaily habits that allow you to stick to a schedule and overcome challenges and distractions over and over and over again.

Mentally tough people don’t have to be more courageous, more talented, or more intelligent — just more consistent.

Grit comes down to your habits. It’s about doing the things you know you’re supposed to do on a more consistent basis. It’s about your dedication to daily practice and your ability to stick to a schedule.


Examples of Grit
Mentally tough athletes are more consistent than others. They don’t miss workouts. 
They don’t miss assignments. They always have their teammates back.

Mentally tough leaders are more consistent than their peers. They have a clear goal 
that they work towards each day. They don’t let short–term profits, negative feedback, or hectic schedules prevent them from continuing the march towards their vision. They 
make a habit of building up the people around them — not just once, but over and 
over and over again.

Mentally tough artists, writers, and employees deliver on a more consistent basis than most. They work on a schedule, not just when they feel motivated. They approach their work like a pro, not an amateur. They do the most important thing first and don’t 
shirk responsibilities.

3 Articles on How I Develop Grit
Best Books on Grit and Mental Toughness
·         Grit by Angela Duckworth
·         Mindset by Carol Dweck
·         How Children Succeed by Paul Tough

Want more great grit books? Browse my full list of the best self-help books.


Saturday, 5 August 2017

Tips And Tricks To Improvise Self-esteem


By: michael cobb



People are typically confused regarding what it means that to possess self-esteem. In a nutshell, self-esteem merely means that appreciating yourself for who you are faults, foibles and every one. It appears like different cultures don’t wrestle with self-esteem the maximum amount as Americans do. Maybe as a result of the stress we have a tendency to appear to place on materialistic indicators of self-worth.

People with smart and healthy self-esteem are ready to feel good regarding them for who they are. They appreciate their own value, and take pride in oneself for their talents and accomplishments. They additionally acknowledge the nature's gift.

1. Take a self-esteem Inventory.

Get a bit of paper. Draw a line down the center of it. On the right-hand side, write: Strengths and on the left-hand aspect, write: Weaknesses. List ten of them. Yes, 10. This will seem to be lots of the strengths aspect if you suffer from poor self-esteem, however force yourself to seek out all ten.

This is your self-esteem Inventory. It helps you to recognize all the items you already tell yourself regarding what proportion you suck, further as showing you that there are several stuffs you don’t suck at. For a number of the weaknesses, you'll be ready for its modification, if solely you work at them, one at a time, over the course of a month or maybe a year.
Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. No one changes things within a short time span. Thus don’t set a delusive expectation that you simply will modify something in only a week’s time.

2. Set Realistic Expectations.

Nothing will kill our self-esteem over setting delusive expectations. Sometimes our expectations are such a lot smaller, still elusive. Check your expectations if they keep unable to please you. Your self-esteem will thank you if you do so.

This may additionally assist you to prevent the cycle of negative puzzling over yourself that reinforce your negative self-esteem. After we create set realistic expectations in our life, we are able to stop ourselves for not meeting some idealistic goal.

3. Put aside perfection and Grab a hold of accomplishments, and mistakes.

Perfection is just impossible for any people. Let it go. You’re never ever progressing to be good. You’re never progressing to have the proper body, the proper life, the proper relationship, the proper kids, or the proper home. We have a tendency to experience the concept of perfection; as a result of we have a tendency to see such a lot of it within the media. However that's merely a synthetic creation of society. It doesn’t exist. Instead, grab a hold of your accomplishments as you succeed them. Acknowledge them to yourself for his or her actual worth.

It’s necessary to remove things from the mistakes you did in life. It doesn’t mean you’re a nasty person, it merely means that you created miscalculation like everyone does. Mistakes are a chance for learning and for growth, if solely we have a tendency to push ourselves out of the sorrow or negative self-talk we have a tendency to wallow in when one can check out and see it from somebody else’s eyes.

4. Explore Yourself.

It’s more than your strengths and weaknesses. Additionally gap yourself up to new opportunities, new thoughts, making an attempt out one thing new, new viewpoints, and new friendships.

Sometimes when we’re down on ourselves and our self-esteem has taken an enormous hit, we have a tendency to want we've got nothing to supply the planet or others.

Learning it is just a matter of trial and error. It's folks however become the folks they’ve forever wished to become, by taking risks and making an attempt to do things they usually don’t do.

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